Jealousy is one of the causes of mental and emotional turmoil. Jealousy arises because of the good qualities in another person.
Reasons for Good Qualities:
There can be only two reasons for good qualities, First is that Allah Almighty has blessed man and the Second is That with the help of Allah Almighty man acquires these attributes by working hard.
Causes of Jealousy in relationship:
For either of these two reasons, when a person becomes moral or has acquired that particular virtue, then some people do not like that virtue which makes them jealous. They start hating this person. They do not like the expression of this particular quality in this person.
Bad Impacts of Jealousy:These feelings and emotions have a very bad effect on a person's personality and destroy a person emotionally. Many emotional, social and moral evils arise in man.
Such as
· looking with suspicion
· blaming
· criticizing
· hating
· making mistakes
· trying to do harm
· heart and mind restlessness
· suffering from emotional stress
· negative thinking
· selfishness
How to get rid of jealousy?How do you get rid of jealousy is an honest question from a person. It is very difficult but not impossible to get rid of jealousy. It takes a little time.
There are a few ways to get rid of it.
· Ignorance:
Ignore the person you are jealous of. Do not discuss his good qualities. Get up from where he is being praised. It's not that you keep thinking about him, it's just that you get busy with something else
· To Praise:
Wherever he is being praised, you should also praise him. This task will be very difficult in the beginning but it will be very beneficial. Gradually you will come out of the state of jealousy. If you cannot sit in people and praise, then Praise him in solitude.
· Focus on positive aspects:
Look at the good qualities of this person. Pay attention to his virtues. Find the good in his every work.
· Giveing Gifts:
Giving a gift is a great feature and it is a virtue that replaces hatred and creates an atmosphere of love and affection on both sides. Gifts are a great way to get rid of jealousy.
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