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11/29/20

How to make lemongrass tea? :: lemon grass tea

 How to make lemongrass tea?

1: prepare your saucepan

2: add one and half cup of water

3: add cardamom (alaichi الائچی)

4: add sugar as your tast

5: Ten (10) fennel seeds (سونف )


Now put the saucepan on the stove with normal flam. After five minuts, When the water starts to boil on the fire, put some lemongrass leaves in the saucepan and cover it. After 15 seconds, turn off the fire. Now do not remove the lid for 5 minutes. After 5 minutes, Take it off and shake it well. Your tea is ready. Filter the tea and Enjoy it.

Some people add ginger and lemon juice in tea, you can do also this if you want….


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Benefits of Lemon grass :: lemongrass tea :: what is lemon grass

Benefits of Lemon grass , Five Major Benefits of Lemongrass Tea 

If you are a tea lover, you must not miss the benefits of drinking lemongrass tea. This tea is loaded with health benefits including weight loss. Here are some reasons why you must drink lemongrass tea. How to make lemongrass tea?

1.   Helps in weight loss

2.    Promotes digestion

3.   Relieves anxiety

4.   Controls poor cholesterol

5.   Improves blood pressure

Are you a tea lover? If yes, then you must include some healthy teas to your daily routine. There are a variety of teas to choose from which are loaded with health benefits. Similarly, lemongrass tea is one healthy option to choose from. Lemongrass tea is loaded with health benefits including weight loss. Lemongrass is called citronella which has a strong aroma and citrus flavour. Lemongrass essential oil is also used for various purposes. It has strong anti-inflammatory properties. If you want to add something healthy to your tea time, try lemongrass tea. Here are some notable health benefits you must know.

1. Helps in weight loss

If you are trying to lose weight you can add lemongrass tea to your diet. This tea helps in detoxification and boots metabolism. Replace your soft drinks with lemongrass tea for effective weight loss. It is also low in calories. It will also control hunger and make you consume fewer calories in a day.

2. Promotes digestion

Lemongrass tea boosts the health of your digestive system. It can reduce the symptoms of an upset stomach. It can also give you relief from stomach cramping, bloating and other digestive issues. Lemongrass essential oil is also used to fight digestive issues

3. Relieves anxiety

Lemongrass tea is also good for your mental health. It leaves a relaxing effect on mind and body. It can help you fight anxiety and stress. It can also lift your moos. It is also advised to add a few drops of lemongrass oil to your room freshener to boost mental health.

4. Controls poor cholesterol

Lemongrass tea is also good for your cholesterol levels. According to a study published in the Journal of Advanced Pharmaceutical Technology and Research, lemongrass can help in controlling bad cholesterol. The results depend on the dosage. You should also consume a healthy diet loaded with fibre to control cholesterol levels.

5. Improves blood pressure

High blood pressure can increase the risk of several diseases. It is extremely important to maintain healthy blood pressure numbers. According to a study published in 2012, lemongrass tea can help in controlling huh blood pressure.

Disclaimer: This content including advice provides generic information only. It is in no way a substitute for qualified medical opinion. Always consult a specialist or your own doctor for more information. TND does not claim responsibility for this information.





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men and women should have equal rights :: equal rights for women :: women's rights history :: civil rights of women

 Men and Women should have equal rights:

Women in Islam are thought to be subjugated, degraded, oppressed – but are they really? Are millions of Muslims simply that oppressive or are these misconceptions fabricated by a biased media?

“And for women are rights over men, similar to those of men over women.”Qur’an 2:228

Over fourteen hundred years ago, Islam gave women rights that women in the West have only recently began to enjoy. In the 1930’s, Annie Besant observed, “It is only in the last twenty years that Christian England has recognised the right of woman to property, while Islam has allowed this right from all times. It is a slander to say that Islam preaches that women have no souls.” (The Life and Teachings of Mohammed, 1932).

Men and women all descended from a single person – the Prophet Adam . Islam does not accept for either of them anything but justice and kind treatment.

Civil Rights of Women

Equal Reward & Equal Accountability

Men and women worship Allah in the same way, meaning they worship the same Allah (Allah), perform the same acts of worship, follow the same scripture, and hold the same beliefs. Allah (the Arabic word for the One true Allah of all creation), judges all human beings fairly and equitably. Allah emphasises the just treatment and reward due to both men and women in many verses of the Qur’an:

وَعَدَ اللّهُ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ وَالْمُؤْمِنَاتِ جَنَّاتٍ تَجْرِي مِن تَحْتِهَا الأَنْهَارُ خَالِدِينَ فِيهَا وَمَسَاكِنَ طَيِّبَةً فِي جَنَّاتِ عَدْنٍ وَرِضْوَانٌ مِّنَ اللّهِ أَكْبَرُ ذَلِكَ هُوَ الْفَوْزُ الْعَظِيمُ ﴿٧٢﴾(سورہ التوبہ الآیہ 72)

“Allah has promised to the believers, men and women, gardens under which rivers flow, to dwell therein, and beautiful mansions in gardens of everlasting bliss.”Qur’an 9:72

فَاسْتَجَابَ لَهُمْ رَبُّهُمْ أَنِّي لاَ أُضِيعُ عَمَلَ عَامِلٍ مِّنكُم مِّن ذَكَرٍ أَوْ أُنثَى بَعْضُكُم مِّن بَعْضٍ (سورہ آل عمران الآیہ 195)

“Never will I allow the loss of the work of any worker amongst you, male or female; you are of one another.”Qur’an 3:195

These verses show that reward is dependent upon one’s actions and not one’s gender. Gender does not play any part in how a person is rewarded and judged.

If we compare Islam to other religions, we see that it offers justice between the sexes. For example, Islam dismisses the idea that Eve is more to blame than Adam for eating from the forbidden tree. According to Islam, Adam and Eve both sinned, they both repented and Allah forgave them both.

Equal Right to Knowledge

Both men and women are equally encouraged to seek knowledge. The Prophet () said, “Education is compulsory for every Muslim.”

Also, great female Muslim Scholars existed at and around the time of the Prophet . Some were from his family and others were his companions or their daughters. Prominent amongst them was Aisha, the wife of the Prophet through whom a quarter of the Islamic law has been transmitted.

Other females were great scholars of jurisprudence and had famous male scholars as their students.

Equal Right to Choose a Spouse

Islam has honoured women by giving them the right to choose a spouse and keep their original family name once married. Additionally, many have the impression that parents force their daughters into marriage. This is a cultural practice, and has no basis in Islam. In fact, it is prohibited.

At the time of Prophet Muhammad , a woman came to him and said, “My father has married me to my cousin to raise his social standing and I was forced into it.” The Prophet sent for the girl’s father and then in his presence gave the girl the option of remaining married or nullifying the marriage. She responded, “O Messenger of Allah, I have accepted what my father did, but I wanted to show other women (that they could not be forced into a marriage).

Equal yet Different

While men and women have equal rights as a general principle, the specific rights and responsibilities granted to them are not identical. Men and women have complementary rights and responsibilities.

Aside from external and internal anatomical differences, scientists know there are many other subtle differences in the way the brains of men and women process language, information and emotion, just to mention a few.

A socio-biology expert, Edward O. Wilson of Harvard University, said that females tend to be higher than males in verbal skills, empathy and social skills, among other things, while men tend to be higher in independence, dominance, spatial and mathematical skills, rank-related aggression, and other characteristics.

It would be foolish to treat both genders the same and to ignore their differences. Islam teaches that men and women have complementary, yet different, roles because it is best suited to their nature. Allah says:

أَلَا يَعْلَمُ مَنْ خَلَقَ وَهُوَ اللَّطِيفُ الْخَبِيرُ ﴿١٤﴾( سورہ الملک الآیہ 14)

 “Does not the One who created, know? And He is the Most Kind, the All Aware.”Qur’an 67:14

The Family Unit

Allah created men and women to be different, with unique roles, skills and responsibilities. These differences are not viewed as evidences of superiority or inferiority, but of specialisation. In Islam, the family is of central importance. The man is responsible for the financial wellbeing of the family while the woman contributes to the family’s physical, educational and emotional wellbeing. This encourages cooperation rather than competition. By fulfilling their mutual responsibilities, strong families are created and hence strong societies.

Also, emotionally, neither men nor women live a happy life without one another. Allah describes this beautifully by saying:

هُنَّ لِبَاسٌ لَّكُمْ وَأَنتُمْ لِبَاسٌ لَّهُنَّ ( سورہ البقرہ الآیہ 187)

“They are clothing for you and you are clothing for them.”Qur’an 2:187

Clothing provides comfort, warmth and security as well as making one look good – this is how the relationship between the husband and wife is defined in Islam.

Love & Mercy in Spousal Relations

The Prophet also encouraged men to treat their spouses in the best way, “The best of you are those who are best (in treatment) to their wives.”

وَمِنْ آيَاتِهِ أَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُم مِّنْ أَنفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَاجًا لِّتَسْكُنُوا إِلَيْهَا وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُم مَّوَدَّةً وَرَحْمَةً إِنَّ فِي ذَلِكَ لَآيَاتٍ لِّقَوْمٍ يَتَفَكَّرُونَ ﴿٢١﴾ (سورہ الروم الآیہ 21)

“And among His signs is that He created or you wives amongst yourselves that you may dwell in tranquillity with them; and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts). Surely in this are Signs for people who reflect.”Qur’an 30:21

Aisha (the Prophet’s wife) was once asked how the Prophet’s conduct was in his home. She said,“He was like one of you at home, yet he was most lenient and most generous … He was ready to give a helping hand to his wives in the ordinary work of the house, [he] sewed his own clothes and mended his own shoes.” In general, he helped in whatever work his wives did.

Lofty Positions of Mothers & Daughters

A mother has the greatest influence on a child especially in the earlier years through her affection, care and love. Undoubtedly, the success of a society is due to mothers. Therefore, it is only right for Islam to honour and raise their status.

Allah says in the Qur’an:

وَوَصَّيْنَا الْإِنسَانَ بِوَالِدَيْهِ إِحْسَانًا حَمَلَتْهُ أُمُّهُ كُرْهًا وَوَضَعَتْهُ كُرْهًا (سورہ الاحقاف الآیہ 15)

“And we have enjoined on man to be dutiful and kind to his Parents, His mother bears him with hardship and she brings him forth with hardship.”Qur’an 46:15

The Prophet was once asked, “O Messenger of Allah, who among people is most deserving of my good treatment?” He said, “Your mother.” The man asked twice more,“Then who?” and was given the same response. Only until the fourth time did the Prophet respond,“Then your father.” Reward is not only given to the good and kind treatment towards mothers. In fact, Islam has designated a special reward for raising daughters that is not granted for raising sons.

The Prophet Muhammad said, “Whoever Allah has given two daughters and is kind towards them, they will be a reason for him entering Paradise.”

Conclusion

Before Islam, women were considered shameful, female children were buried alive, prostitution was rampant, divorce was only in the hands of the husband, inheritance was only for the strong, and oppression was widespread. Islam came and abolished these practices. Even now, in “developed countries”, women are not granted respect, dignity and honour, let alone equal pay for equal work. Islam, however, regards women as precious and valuable, not to be disrespected or disgraced. The mistreatment of women in some Middle-Eastern countries or Muslim families is due to cultural factors that some Muslims wrongly follow, not because of Islam. Why would many women around the world willingly enter Islam if it is an oppressive religion?  Islam says men and women should have equal rights.

We end with the words of our Lord and your Lord, the Creator and Sustainer of all men and women:

إِنَّ الْمُسْلِمِينَ وَالْمُسْلِمَاتِ وَالْمُؤْمِنِينَ وَالْمُؤْمِنَاتِ وَالْقَانِتِينَ وَالْقَانِتَاتِ وَالصَّادِقِينَ وَالصَّادِقَاتِ وَالصَّابِرِينَ وَالصَّابِرَاتِ وَالْخَاشِعِينَ وَالْخَاشِعَاتِ وَالْمُتَصَدِّقِينَ وَالْمُتَصَدِّقَاتِ وَالصَّائِمِينَ وَالصَّائِمَاتِ وَالْحَافِظِينَ فُرُوجَهُمْ وَالْحَافِظَاتِ وَالذَّاكِرِينَ اللَّهَ كَثِيرًا وَالذَّاكِرَاتِ أَعَدَّ اللَّهُ لَهُم مَّغْفِرَةً وَأَجْرًا عَظِيمًا ﴿٣٥﴾ (سورہ الاحزاب آیہ 35)

“Surely the men who submit and the women who submit, and the believing men and the believing women, and the obedient men and the obedient women, and the truthful men and the truthful women, and the patient men and the patient women, and the humble men and the humble women… Allah has prepared for them forgiveness and a great reward.”Qur’an 33:35



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11/28/20

How COVID-19 Has Affected Students’ Mental Health

How COVID-19 Has Affected Students’ Mental Health 


It’s no secret that the COVID-19 pandemic has taken a toll on everyone’s mental health. According to many recent studies and firsthand accounts across the country, college students are not exempt.

While all students’ experiences are unique, some may find comfort knowing that they are not alone in the stressors they are facing. Research done on college student mental health is shedding light on how they have been mentally impacted by COVID-19 laden school years.

Science Shows Students Are Stressed

According to a Journal of Medical Internet Research study, just over 71% of the 195 interviewed college students from a Texas university indicated that they had experienced increased stress and anxiety due to COVID-19.1

They noted that their stress stemmed from worries about their own health, the health of their loved ones, irregular sleeping habits, decreased socialization due to social distancing, difficulty concentrating, and concerns about their academic performance.

A study published in the Journal of the American Medical Association looked at the mental health impact on just over 69,000 French university students (participants were primarily female and in their first year). They found a high prevalence of severe self-reported mental health symptoms. Researchers suggested that not only is student mental health a public health issue, but that it has “become even more critical in the context of a pandemic, underlining the need to reinforce prevention, surveillance, and access to care.” Ref.

Another study focused on undergraduate students in Northern New Jersey. A total of 162 students answered the survey, and participants were primarily non-white females.

It found that students struggled with high mental health distress and multiple academic and daily difficulties. People who had trouble focusing academically and had lost their jobs had higher levels of depression. Higher anxiety was common among non-freshmen and students who spent an hour plus per day searching for COVID-19 information. Females, students who couldn’t focus on academics, and those who said they struggled to get medicine and cleaning supplies all had higher levels of perceived stress. Ref.

How Some Students Are Coping

It’s clear that increased stress and anxiety has been prominent among college students across the country. Much like the varied response from schools across the nation, students are handling the atypical fall semester in their own ways. For some, that means always having something to do and for others, it means taking more time for self-care. Four students shared their stories of how they adjusted to pandemic-life.

Back Home Again

Originally from a small town in Pennsylvania, Megan Boyles, a second year student pursuing her bachelor's in film and television at Savannah College of Art and Design (SCAD), fell in love with the Georgia school when she first toured. While Boyles had been living in Savannah pre-pandemic, COVID-19 sent her back home to complete her semester fully online, which has both positively and negatively impacted her mental health.

“I am very independent and started creating a life for myself at SCAD, and then I felt like that was taken away from me when I came back home,” she said. “I am happy I have my family to talk to and people I can hug and high five because there are parts of this pandemic that have caused me a lot of anxiety and sadness.”

Academically, Boyles said her motivation has remained high and she’s been able to maintain her GPA. While she has felt a need to be productive, she also understands that it’s okay to take a break and has allowed herself more time to relax.

“This pandemic can cause spells of low energy and being unmotivated,” she said. “It is important to remember that your value is not based off your productivity.”

Having a set schedule has given Boyles a sense of purpose back, she said. She has been able to engage in meaningful conversations via her Zoom classes, which helps to distract her from other stressors in her life.

“For such a long time, I was stressed and mad at the world because of my friends and family members who continued being unsafe, as well as the rude comments about masks and this pandemic that would be (and still are) expressed to me at work,” Boyles said. “I have lost respect for a lot of my family members because of their actions during this pandemic and their harsh words about those who have passed on because of this virus.”

She continued: “I understand that in-person interaction has an effect on people and their happiness, but in my mind, it is a small price to pay for the safety of those I love … taking actions to stay home and wear a mask are signs that we care about our neighbors and their health.”

Adjusting to Online Learning

Miles Hood is a first year graduate student pursuing his masters in business administration from Rochester Institute of Technology. He has adjusted to online learning, but not because he wanted to.

“This semester has wrecked and rebuilt how I approach everything,” Hood said. “I prefer totally in-person over any [other] mode, [and] I feel like the shortened semester puts a rush on teachers until they feel as if they couldn't teach. They more or less reviewed new topics and that made it hard for me to feel like I was succeeding for most of the semester.”

For a while, Hood said he was unmotivated, didn’t enjoy his graduate program, and overall felt out of place. After a few therapy sessions, he regained some of his motivation and excitement toward his dream of becoming a sports journalist.

Socially, Hood identifies as an extrovert. He is outgoing, loves to laugh with both friends and strangers. He enjoys going to different bars and restaurants, trying interesting foods—his original goal was to become the “Black Gordon Ramsay,” he said—and traveling the country.

“COVID has made that entirely impossible. It has also changed my personality to an extent. I value hanging out with friends more than I ever did before,” he said.

C’s Get Degrees

In order to discourage travel, many colleges and universities canceled some or all planned breaks for the fall semester. Anna Kittrell, a second year chemical engineering major at Louisiana State University, lives just off-campus and has been taking classes remotely. She noted that the lack of time off has made her feel drained and eager for classes to end.

“With no breaks in the semester, school has felt like a non-stop, brain-sucking machine,” she said.

While normally an A/B student, Kittrell has struggled with motivation and taken on the mindset “C’s get degrees.” She said overall, she hasn’t felt pressure from her professors—who have mostly been understanding and accommodating—to be more productive this semester.

However, online learning has proven challenging for Kittrell as someone who learns better in-person and with a more hands-on approach.

“My professors don’t work through example problems in class,” Kittrell said. “They put a slide on a powerpoint with the problem already worked out and then speed through the explanation of their work. In STEM classes, I learn best by working through the problems with my professors, so I can understand where all of the numbers and equations are coming from and what they mean.”

Kittrell has adjusted the expectations she has for herself since figuring out that online learning isn’t for her. Had she not been in a good place mentally heading into the semester, she said her lower academic performance might have affected her more than it has.

As an introvert, Kittrell hasn’t been too impacted by the inability to partake in group social activities. She said originally, she wanted to step out of her comfort zone this semester by going to more bars, restaurants, and parties. Instead, Kittrell has taken the time to focus on bettering herself.

“The pandemic forced me to dive into the things that I didn’t like about myself and confront the things that made me unhappy because I spend so much time alone,” she said. “My mental state is honestly the best it has ever been because I have spent the last few months choosing to only do things that make me happy.”

Pressure to Be Productive

There is an unspoken pressure to be hyper-productive to make up for time missed due to the pandemic.

During the first few months of the pandemic, Abigail Bennethum, a third year public relations and business communications major at University of Northern Iowa, took on a full-time job and two online courses. She said she felt like she needed to do something to distract herself and keep her busy, and having her work to lean on helped a lot.

“I feel so much more urgency to get everything done,” Bennethum said. “When I get super freaked out or have anxiety, I just try to slow down, turn my brain off, or take a bath … taking these little steps of self-care have really helped me understand I don’t need to freak out all the time.”

At first, Bennethum appreciated the additional time quarantine freed up for her to do her work. But as a more extroverted person, the prolonged time without seeing her friends or extended family “brought a looming sad feeling” over her, especially when her campus housing shut down and she had to pack up and move home.

This semester, Bennethum is back to living near campus. When her roommates contracted COVID-19, she said it strained their relationships while they navigated the difficulties of trying not to contract the virus herself. Ultimately, she said she thinks the experience made all of them more cautious.

Bennethum’s courses have been a blend of online synchronous, online asynchronous, and in-person classes. She enjoys the fact that she can do most of her work and classes at her own pace. The professors, administrators, and faculty at her university have done a good job of balancing safety and normality, she said.

“I do not think I have ever seen students and professors connect this well,” she said. “Some would say the opposite, but my professors have gone above and beyond and are consistently attentive to emails and responding to questions. I think they are trying to make up [for and] go above what they did before since there is limited time and there are more barriers.”

Finishing the Semester Strong

As the semester comes to a close, many students are looking forward to the time off that winter break brings while also anticipating going back home.

It’s important to get tested before heading back home and take precautions, such as always wearing a mask when you’re in public (regardless of state mandates), consistently washing your hands, and getting a flu shot as soon as possible to help prevent additional sicknesses.

What This Means For You

Although next semester will likely hold similar challenges as this one, it’s important to prioritize your mental health above all else.

“This semester has been full of new experiences and new challenges,” Kittrell said. “School is important, but it is not the most important thing in the world. Prioritize your mental and physical health.

Remember that you are not alone; there are people all over the country and even the world that are experiencing the same things as you are. Take all the time you need to focus on things that make you happy, and don’t let these past few months determine the path for your future. Things will start to look up soon.”


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COVID-19 Has Had Significant Effect on Foster and Adoption Rates :: children for adoption :: foster care system

 COVID-19 Has Had Significant Effect on Foster and Adoption Rates

Both the adoption and fostering process can be long and grueling. Whether the adoption is domestic or international, there are several rounds of checkpoints and protocols, piles of paperwork, countless fees, and lots of waiting.

Under normal circumstances, waiting is a necessary evil, and adding in a pandemic due to a novel virus can compound the difficulties exponentially. Some organizations have been able to transfer their mandated trainings online, but this does not eliminate the canceled and postponed home visits that are required to place children in permanent homes.

Denise Wise-David, Program Manager for JFS’s Connecting Hearts says, “We call and check-in with people to see how they are doing with the process. Before COVID-19, it would take them about 6 months to complete the training, get a home study done, and become certified to become a foster parent… and about a year to a year and a half to get to adoption.

International adoptions can take up years to complete from start to finish, and domestic adoptions through agencies aren’t much shorter. Local adoption agencies report COVID-19 slowing down their processes for a few different reasons, including stretched out approval processes due to social distancing considerations.

The Typical Process

Adoption processes can vary, but prospective parents must receive certification before they can be placed with children, either for fostering or adoption. Trainings vary depending upon the state and locality, but prospective foster or adoptive parents can anticipate dedicating at least a month and a half to weekly classes prior to having a child placed in their care.

Typically, prospective parents can anticipate finishing these classes and then moving on to home studies. This is where a social worker makes a few visits to the prospective guardian’s residence to assess if the safety and space is sufficient for a child or additional children. Trainings for Connecting Hearts, a Virginia-based agency, cover topics like what it means to take a child into the home, behaviours that children can exhibit, developing your own team, and understanding trauma.

Wise-David explains, “They go through training, and that can be anywhere from 6 weeks to 90 days, depending on what time they are able to dedicate. Adoption trainings have relied on Zoom and other modern technologies to still make the effort. There really isn’t any face to face as of yet.”

An end goal of the fostering process is to reunite the child with their original family once it has been deemed safe to do so. Of course, because of varying circumstances, there are situations where this may not be an option. In these instances, if the parents are living, the rights to the child are either released or terminated before another family can officially adopt them.

Cause of Delays

Because COVID-19’s outbreak this spring resulted in court closings, there were major delays in many legal proceedings, including those related to foster care and adoption and rights release or termination. 

Another factor in the downturn of adoption and foster rates is the concern of safety for the prospective parents, as several families foster or adopt children as additions to their existing families and there is a concern about exposure. Additionally, the altered stability for many families comes into play, as the virus negatively has affected the jobs of several since the early spring. 2020 marked the highest number of US unemployment applications and pay-outs to date.

A major concern for anti-violence agencies during this time has been abuse that is going unreported during this time, and this coincides with the lowered amounts of children being placed within the system as well. 20 percent of social service calls are reported by the teachers, and because students are not in class every day,1 there are less of them entering the system, ultimately lowering rates of fostering and adoption.

The unknown aspect of the pandemic sparks concern for social services and foster care workers, as older children are statistically less likely to be rehomed. “A lot of the teenagers are in residential facilities. Most people want little children, so that has been another problem.”

Positives for the Future

While the outcomes of this pandemic have been tragic, some agencies have been forced to be innovative and acknowledge the ways that tech is more accessible. Wise-David discussed how online trainings are hard for some, but they intend to continue even when it is safe to be in-person. “They’d started doing some of these classes online prior to COVID because they realized that some parents weren't physically able to come to a building each week.

Connecting Hearts says that this time has taught them that people are willing to help but not always in a long term setting. This has increased the need for what they are calling respite families, where individuals can apply to go through the training and act as a trusted, safe space for the children without being their primary caretaker.

“This allows for the foster family and the child to form a relationship with this respite family, that way the child isn’t placed with strangers if the family has to leave for a doctor’s appointment or a family emergency. That’s a great way to break into foster care to see if it’s for you.” 

What This Means For You

Because of safety provisions and considerations, fostering and adoptions processes are moving slower during this time. However, this does not mean that you are out of options or that bringing a new child home is no longer a possibility.

There are local agencies that are willing to take you through the process virtually, and participating in a foster-to-adopt method would enable you to adopt a child faster than the traditional route. There are plenty of children waiting for loving homes, and if you are patient and willing to provide that, then you have plenty of options!

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11/27/20

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          Making a good first impression

Do you need to make the right first impression socially or professionally? Well, the art of being liked and appreciated isn’t new but if you lost track of the way to show your best, here are 6 ways to make a good first impression:


1: Be positive for good impression: If you are cheerful, smiling and come across as a happy person who has confidence and positive in attitude and demur, you’ll be able to make the best impression.



2: Being a good listener: It isn’t about being a good talker that creates the right impression. You need to be a good listener and be interested in the other person that puts you in the right light.



3: Being agreeable: It is best to be flexible in your attitudes and show empathy instead of being dominant and rigid. If you are open to new ideas and think out of the box, you will be accepted better. In a relationship, nagging and finding faults might not always work. You create the right impression, when you are happy and agreeable.

4: Being pleasant: Nobody likes being with a grouch. If you moan and complain all the time, you’ll be left alone quickly. However, if you have a happy disposition and love being pleasant, you’ll not just create a good impression, but will be the focus of friendships and have good relationships.
         5: Saying thank you:  Saying ‘Thank you for spending the time with me’ can go a long way in showing how articulate and polite you are. Showing your manners is never out of fashion and shows the right bringing up. Thus, say Thank you and Please when needed.



6: Acknowledging your flaws for great impression: Nobody is perfect and when you admit your weakness and be honest about your flaws, you come across as an honest person. This adds credibility to your personality, making you more likable as a person.


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